TAGGED

i.ve been tagged by naima! damn it!! not really in a mood to do this .. (since ppl like cx and yeen have always been teasing me being despo :P ) hahaha :P but ..aikz ... things i do for u my dearest naima~ .. appreciate this k~!!! haha :P

The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.
Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.
Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.
If you are tagged the second time.There is NO need to do this again.
Lastly, most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT.

1.
well ... first and foremost .. he (MALE- i'm specifying the gender u see :P )must of course love me and take me as i am ..

understanding and have a big heart so that he will not attempt to change me drastically.. but i dun mind if he wants me to change a lil for the better :) he has to accept the fact tat i cant be caged and my family and frens stand a big part in my life.. so .. be prepared to be left out a lil and is cool with tat ..
*by the way .. i wanna also take this opportunity to clarify tat .. even if i may sorta ignore my guy and left him completely out of everything .. it doesnt mean tat i dun care.. or i'm taking him for granted* aikz .. dun need to elaborate tat much .. my point is tat as long as he accept me for who i am.... yeap.
oh ya ..this includes long distance grumpy-ness and pms and mood swings and stress and tonnes of complaining .. :P


2.
outspoken and outgoing

knows when to stand out and voice his opinions and when to stand up for me .. capable of socialising .. knows how to befriend with my friends and family .. and wont make a fool out of himself by trying hard and act like a wannabe.. friendly to my younger sisters and bro .. respects my parents and is able to hang out with my bunch of frens with no barriers :)



3.
humourous and is willing to go crazy with me

he must somehow holds the key to making me laugh .. :P .. who cares if the joke is super lame.. i like laughing and smiling .. cos.. without :) i'm not me ... imagine i'm stucked with a person who doesnt know to set an upright curve on my face.. EWW!! also he would enjoy laughing WITH me ... (i dun mind if he laughs at me or zat me as long as he's prepared to be whacked :P ) and would be the person who does random things with me instead of just shaking his head disapprovingly at the corner ... or in other case .. if i'm too embarassing .. then he has to pull me aside before i embarass myself even more :P


4.
a teacher and a learner

understand the fact tat life is a never ending learning journey and hopefully through him i can learn to grow mentally emotionally and spiritually and vice versa.
(DEFINITELY NOT PHYSICALLY!!!)



5.
opens up his heart and trustworthy

since relationship is always mutual.. he should be comfortable with sharing his feelings, joy, sorrow, worries , success and all the ups and downs with me .. cos i'm very sure tat i would :) .. no secrets within each other and doesnt attempt to hide things even if it means that the subject would lead up to us having a big quarrel or fight.. i rather fighting than being in a cold war .. guessing his tots and not knowing wat else can i do (but pleasant suprises excluded :P ) hehehee



6.
someone whom i can look at, into the eye

am i making sense? well.. he has to be someone that i can look into his eyes not elsewhere .. eg. food :P



7.
willing to make an initiative and somewat decisive

well.. i know it's stereotyped tat guys are expected to make the first move .. haha ..well .. too bad .. it still applies :P and yea .. i really hope tat at least he would sms me, call me, or even crash at my place at times when it's really special or at times when i'm down .. greatly appreciate it too if he's romantic and knows how to make my heart melts ..
oh oh!!! knows what and where to feed me well .. wont go .. " ermm .. i duno.. anything " but then wont be too opinionated that i dun have a say in wat i wanna eat :P

hehe .. obviously .. i'm a pig :) eating well is very important u see! :P



8.
phew!! finally the last one!! :P
someone who is proud and happy to have me and be with me




well.. i know tat my list is really long :P oh well .. hehe .. it took me real long to think of 8 qualities :P haha.. anyhoo .. i believe tat God has great plans instored for us :) and i believe the right one will come :) yea.. :)

yay!!! my turn to tag

1. yeanzo
2. megan
3. evil twin
4. mak mak - if she reads this :P
5. sui yuan

5 for now ..
:P